Today we talk a lot about relationships and how they should be and each one of us has an opinion on what is right and what is wrong in a relationship. The question is how do you define right or wrong in a relationship when it all comes down to being relative in comparison to what is at the stake of it. Sometimes I feel like most of the relationships these days are artificial be it a romantic relationship or a friendship – superficial. It is like people are being friends or in a couple just to be able to say that they are in one. Others become friends or stay in a couple because they become comfortable with the person they are with – even of their passion or love for each other has died. It is strange. It depends on the circumstances of the situation I guess but still strange.
Heartbreaks. Every relationship at one point or another has a disappointment phase – unfortunately some lead to a bigger problem heartbreak! It hurts. When you know that your happiness is right in front of you and the temporary problem can be fixed and yet your future just slips away from you – you feel like the whole world is falling apart!
So how do you keep the hearts safe and have a long lasting relationship whilst managing your career and family? Tricky question, I know. Do you simply have to get your priorities straight or do you just take it day by day and se where you end up at the end of the day?
The think is I do t have an answer to any of these questions and frankly I don’t know anyone who has. Yet something tells me that of you keep the faith and fix the short term problems on your way you are bound to find that happy place that we are so desperately looking for! Don’t you agree? The generation today goes out and searches for the new, better experience instead of fixing the one they have because they believe it’s easier to build new relationship than fix an old one. I am not so sure about that. Building takes years of work to destroy something you need a second of a minute. Think about it next time you decide to break someone’s heart or anything for that matter! Is it really worth it?